The stubborn felt it first. If he is a president or a manager, he cares to tell you: "I am the manager!" His center comes first, and he must submit to his authority.
The harsh stubborn does not give effect to the feelings of those who deal with him. Whatever the suffering of man as a result of cruelty and stubbornness, it is not affected, not feel.
Often, cruelty hides his feelings, and shows them, as he sees fit. Sometimes he shows that he cares about the weak, and the times he does not know.
The cruelty stems from feelings of anger, hatred and bitterness, and the cruel one is relieved of its depth. Sulaiman al-Hakim mentions this: "The merciful man improves himself, and the cruel one disturbs his flesh" (Proverbs 17:11).
The stubborn cares first, and above all, of his personal interests, and sometimes misjudges the situation, what he thinks useful to him, will be useless! But he does not see it, so he cares about what he said, and his intellectual direction, and refuses to change, he sees his interest only in one direction.
Al-Anid usually refuses to change his mind, and al-Qaisi does not think of changing in any way.
2018-01-11