Brake the barriers The first three barriers impede effectiveness, represent a barrier in the life of man and his path to success, and a person must break these barriers and overcome, to pave the way to individual successes. But individual successes are not everything. There are great and serious successes called collective successes. If one can overcome the first three barriers and then overcome the following three barriers, God can achieve collective success. But watch out! As you move beyond the barriers of efficiency and success, you should not forget an important barrier. This barrier, which is always stopping you, is a barrier to achieving success. If you do so, The seven barriers have passed, and these seven are complete ... This is what we are exposed to in this article and in our next articles, God willing. The barriers to individual successes (3) + the barriers to collective successes (3) + the barrier of sufficiency = (7). The above can be summarized in: The pursuit of personal success is to skip the first three barriers against efficiency, then strive for collective success, which is to skip the three barriers to the second against efficiency, and during this process will be constantly skip the seventh barrier barrier of continuous development. Start: First, there are some initial constraints on the way of efficiency. They should be completely eliminated so that we can walk. 1. Do you fear this enemy? It is the fearful and frightening enemy, which disturbs the lives of many, and prevents them from moving forward on the path of effectiveness and the path of success. It is the constant fear of failure. Are you really afraid of failure? "Failure is the only way to succeed, and the well-known example behind every great woman" should be modified to become: Behind every great record of failed experiments, The end) [so as not to fail, Ahmed Salem Badwilan, p. 19]. It is failures and failed experiments that make us succeed that give us experience, but the fear of failure does not exist in reality, but is only latent in the minds of some. Neuro-linguistic programming hypotheses stated that "there is no failure but a specific view of a past experience" [NLP and the art of unlimited communication, Dr. Ibrahim al-Faqi, p. 30]. From today, , And replace it with the word: (useful experience) or (balance of experience) I will learn a lot of them, God willing. 2. Fear of Success: It is a strange strange constraint that some may not understand, but unfortunately many people are hindered by their fear of success and not fear of failure. Each level of success requires the owner to seek a higher level of success in the future. And we will strike an example, a student may succeed very well, and another succeeds with an acceptable grade. The student who received the accepted rating is happier than the one who has a very good rating, because the student who was accepted would have been awarded a good grade. Very ambitious and aspiring around him will not be less than getting a distinction or being a first. When people think this way, satisfaction with normal levels of success is better than striving for distinct levels of psychological stress to maintain and develop success. As for the person who initiates and activates his message in life, "continuous development" is always striving to develop from himself and elevate his level, whenever he has a science of glory to him, if he sees a greater knowledge, Imam al-Jawzi said: (And the elite of the people who woke up what they slept, and they walked what they stood, they rise and rise, whenever they moved to a place they saw the lack of what they were; 3. Utopia: We mean the utopian city imagined by the Greek philosopher Plato, and he was looking for it but he did not find anything; because he was looking for a mirage. Many people spend their lives in Plato's metaphor, so they search for improbable idealism, setting themselves unrealistic standards and not commensurate with their potentials. Some of Plato's imitators may be living among us now, searching for the false idealism, which hinders them from achieving effectiveness, and which sets them unrealistic and incompatible with their potential. It is therefore important not only to set goals but also to objective criteria for these objectives. 4. Place the cup and rest a little: One day, he raised a glass of water and asked listeners, "What do you think is the weight of this cup of water?" The answers range from 50 g to 500 g. The lecturer replied: It does not matter the absolute weight of this cup! The weight here depends on how long I hold on to this cup. If I lift it for a minute, nothing will happen. If I carry it for an hour, I will feel pain in my hand, but if I carry it for a day, you will call an ambulance. The cup is the same weight. The greater his weight) [Stories and meanings, Alaa Sadiq, p. 13]. Thus, the pressures of life, if we carry them all over our heads all the time, will be one of the most important obstacles that stand in our way towards effectiveness, especially in our modern era of accelerated pace. Therefore, Dr. Abdelkarim Bakkar advises us: "Our modern era is the age of increasing demands, Each one of us must improve its ability to resist the pressures of the nature of life at this time, and this requires us to become accustomed to relaxation and self-recreation within the framework of legitimacy and moderation. "[13] ].